For parents
CERTIFICATE OF EMPOWERMENT
As bearer of this certificate you are no longer required to depend on the advice of experts. You may step back and view the entire world-not just your home, neighborhood or town, but the whole Earth-as a learning experience, a laboratory containing languages (and native speakers thereof), plants, animals, history, geology, weather (real live weather, in the sky, not in a book), music, art, mathematics, physics, engineering, foods, human dynamics, and ideas without end. Although collections of these treasures have been located in museums for your convenience, they are to be found everywhere else, too.
This authorizes you to experiment; to trust and enjoy your kids; to rejoice when your children surpass you in skill, knowledge or wisdom; to make mistakes, and to say “I don’t know.” Furthermore, you may allow your children to experience boredom without taking full responsibility for finding them something to do.
Henceforth you shall neither be required nor expected to finish everything you start. Projects, books, experiments and plans may be discontinued as soon as something more interesting comes along (or for any other reason) without penalty, and picked up again at any time in the future (or never).
You may reclaim control of your family’s daily life, and take what steps you feel necessary to protect your children from physical, emotional or social harm.
You have leave to think your own thoughts, and to encourage your children to think theirs.
(I’m not sure who wrote this, I was given it when we participated in Self design) and have kept it since…
Very inspiring! Thanks for sharing
Have a lovely week,
Hi! It is hard watching our children make their way in life now that there adults and away from home. When they were at home it was easy, sort of, to assist them and be there when they needed us 24/7. We still do it but from a distance now (phone calls). We give advise and opinions but we know they have to learn and cope for themselves. We know and they know we will not be around forever. They may be adults now but they will always remain our babies.